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Maui Sea SunsetMany people go to Hawaii to celebrate romance. Hawaii is a great place to get married, honeymoon, and celebrate a wedding anniversary. So if you have any of those events coming up or you’re looking for ways to rekindle the flame with your partner, here are some top ideas for romantic things to do in Hawaii.

1. Take in a beautiful sunset.
There’s really nothing much more romantic than sitting beside each other to watch the sun sink into the ocean. Make watching sunset even more memorable with a sunset cruise/sail or a picnic at a beach. Some hotels can prepare a picnic basket for you. Alternatively, it’s easy to pick up picnic supplies at one of the local grocery stores. Make sure you don’t just pack up and leave as soon as the sun is down. Watch for the amazing colors of the sky after sunset for an even more memorable sunset.

If you are on Maui, consider going to Haleakala to watch sunrise. There’s something very special and romantic about watching sunrise on Haleakala when you are snuggling up to your sweetheart under a blanket.

2. Take a helicopter ride to discover the islands from the air.
If you ever watch those “searching for love” reality shows like The Bachelor, you’ll notice at some point along the show, a couple will go on a helicopter tour. There’s a buzz that you get from seeing the beautiful islands from a different perspective. When you get to share a helicopter tour with your sweetie, it makes it even more special. Be sure to read and follow these Hawaii helicopter tour tips.

3. Arrange for an ocean side couples massage.
Imagine the bliss of side by side massages on a beach while you listen to the waves crash on the shore. Ah! Make sure you read my Hawaiian spa advice before you book your massage.

4. Go horseback riding.
There are some fantastic places to go horseback riding in Hawaii - in rainforests, rolling hills, valleys, and beaches.

5. Go stargazing.
On a moonless night, Hawaii’s skies sparkle with an incredible array of stars. To stargaze, you can either find a secluded spot with limited surrounding light or take a guided tour.

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I hope you’ll use these suggestions to make your Hawaiian vacation, honeymoon or anniversary even more special. For you folks who are also romantics at heart, what other suggestions would you add? Please share them in the comments and please keep them G-rated. ;)

image Check out eCouponsHawaii.com before you go on vacation and you may find some valuable savings. I’ve been clicking away on that website and finding some nice deals that would definitely benefit Hawaii visitors and residents, too.

To save you some steps, I’m linking to coupon pages that I felt were worth pointing out to my fellow Hawaii travelers. The offers do vary from island to island. After you click on the island link for each category listed below, access the specific coupons by clicking on the individual business logos.

  • Car rental coupons for Maui, Oahu, Big Island, and Kauai. Definitely take a look at these coupons and compare them to quotes you get from some of the websites like Expedia, Travelocity, Kayak, etc.
  • Looking for discounts on tours and activities? You’ll find discounts for everything from guided tours to luaus to kayak rentals, bike rentals, and much more. You’ll even find coupons for helicopter tours. Here are the links for the offers for the Big Island, Oahu, Maui, Kauai, and Molokai.
  • Spas! See these spa and beauty coupons for Oahu and the Big Island.
  • Are you getting married in Hawaii? Then check out these coupons for weddings including photography, transportation, flowers and beauty needs for Big Island, Oahu, Maui, and Kauai.
  • A free DoleWhip with the purchase of two DoleWhips at the Dole Plantation on Oahu. A DoleWhip is a refreshing frozen pineapple treat. If you have the time a stop at the Dole Plantation is a neat little place to visit, though it is a bit touristy. I enjoyed just walking around the gift shop and seeing some unique souvenirs.

I like to thank the LA Times Daily Deal Blog and a comment from Hawaii Money Saving Mama for introducing me to eCouponsHawaii.

image While we’re on the topic of coupons and discounts, I’d like to point out that the 2008 Hawaii Entertainment books are currently on sale for $9.99. You may recall we talked about these Hawaii coupon books last month. The consensus from the comments is that the coupon books were particularly valuable for Oahu, but not as useful on the other islands.

The following guest post was kindly written by Jim who writes daily about personal finance issues at Blueprint for Financial Prosperity. Jim recently returned from a honeymoon in Hawaii and, like many people, has fallen in love with the Aloha state. His favorite island is Kauai and thinks he saw a Menehune.

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My wife and I recently had the great pleasure of honeymooning on the islands of Hawaii, the first trips for both of us, and picked up a few do’s and don’t along the way. Some of these tips are just good general vacationing tips, such as packing an extra suitcase, but some are specific to Hawaii. These are also tips that I hadn’t heard of before our trip, unlike the ubiquitous tip of not leaving
luggage visible in your car, so we hope they will be new to you all as well.

Do Remember Those Essentials
Hawaii is an archipelago, which means everything that isn’t grown there is shipped in. That also means everything is more expensive than on the Mainland so try to bring as much as you can with you so you don’t have to buy it. On our trip we actually brought a few bottles of wine, some trail mix, and other assorted items we normally wouldn’t bring on a trip with us. We figured that we
could carry the load so we might as well save a few dollars by bring it with us! And yes, wine is essential.

Do Get Those Blue Guidebooks [The Ultimate/Revealed Guides written by Andrew Doughty]
The locals hate them but those blue guidebooks are a treasure. You could go on a drive, have nothing planned, and rely on the blue book to guide you the rest of the way. We used it every night to help decide where we’d eat, we used it to help us figure out what hikes to do, and we used it to help us find where the locals hang out (so we could avoid tourists like us!)

The one caveat about the book is that it sometimes tells you to take a departure from the trail and go down some path for a secret detour. Sometimes those detours have newspaper clippings of people who have died… I advise that you avoid any trail whose only trail head is an obituary.

[Sheila's note - also, be very careful that you do not trespass.]

Do Know Where Costco Is
Having Costco in Hawaii saved us a tremendous amount of money in gasoline. I don’t know how they do it but they are consistently cheaper than the competition, sometimes by a significant amount, and you can even take advantage of their cheap prices on food (and wine!) if you want to pick up some snacks you may have forgotten. If you don’t have a blue guide book for the island, Costco usually carries it.

Do Bring An Empty Suitcase
Invariably you’ll pick something along the way in Hawaii, or any vacation, so it’s crucial that you pack an empty suitcase to haul your booty back to the Mainland. Even if you have the space, the ridiculous weight restrictions on luggage (and surcharges) will often be killer unless you can offload that heavy Kona coffee and mac nuts into another roller.

Do Become Everyone’s Friend
Talk to everyone, become everyone’s friend, make conversation and remember you’re on vacation! Hawaiians are usually very friendly and very easy going. Sometimes you find people who are in a mood, we all get in those moods, but usually people are wearing their Hawaiian shirts and having a good time.

Don’t Try To Visit Them All!
We had planned to honeymoon in Hawaii for about two and a half weeks. Our first week was slated for Kauai, followed by a few days on the Big Island, then a few days on Maui, followed by a few in Oahu. About a month before our trip, as we were finalizing lodging and inter-island airfare, we decided to scrap Maui. Boy was that a great idea! We felt too compelled to visit everything on our first trip and we were both glad we removed an island from our itinerary because it gave
us more time to enjoy the three islands we did go. You never want to feel rushed when you’re on vacation, especially when it’s your honeymoon.

Traveling inter-island is not a hassle at all, we flew Hawaiian Airlines, but you do lose a few hours each day and those are precious hours you could be spent hiking, snorkeling, or lying on the beach. We decided that we’d be going back to Hawaii in the future so we should save some for the next trip.

Don’t Pack Snorkel Gear
Snorkel gear rental on the islands is so cheap, there’s really no need for you to pack a mask, wetsuit, and fins; unless you have a ton of room to spare and don’t mind lugging it around. The equipment won’t be as good as anything you can buy in a store but you don’t need to carry it all the way from home either.

Don’t Be In A Hurry
Nothing… happens… in… Hawaii… in… a… hurry… so… relax. :-) Some people make joke about Hawaiian time but it’s legit, stuff is simply more relaxed and everyone’s having a real chill time. Don’t rush people and they won’t look at you like you have four heads. Just hang loose, just have fun…

Do you have any Hawaii honeymoon Do’s and Don’ts that I missed? Please share!

image Here’s a deal for those who are planning a honeymoon, anniversary, or just looking for a way to celebrate romance. The Embassy Suites at the Waikiki Beach Walk has a special called “Suite Romance” and for $339 per night here’s what’s included:

  • Partial ocean view suite
  • In room couples lomilomi massage (Hawaiian massage). This 45 minute massage session also includes a lesson on how to practice lomilomi on one another. (Oolala!)
  • Pineapple sweet and sour sugar scrub and a bottle of Hawaii-made massage oil.
  • Complimentary signature dessert at Roy’s Waikiki or Ruth’s Chris Steak House at the Waikiki Beach Walk.

Other standard amenities include:

  • Sit-down check-in process with a tropical beverage or mango mimosa
  • Hawaiian music compilation CD
  • A new Hawaiian story card each day
  • Full cooked to order breakfast.
  • Nightly manager’s reception including appetizers and cocktails

This romance package is available through December 21st, 2008. Enter promotional code: LUV
when making reservations at www.EmbassySuitesWaikiki.com or over the phone at 1-800-EMBASSY. Read reviews of this hotel on TripAdvisor.

Sheila

Top 7 Reasons Why Hawaii is Romantic

Maui Sunset with Tiki torches

Hawaii truly exudes romance. Whether you go to Maui, Kauai, Oahu or Lanai, you’ll be sure to kindle or rekindle the flames of passion. What is it about Hawaii that attracts so many people for weddings, honeymoons, and anniversaries? Let’s explore why. Here are my top seven reasons to celebrate love in Hawaii.

1. Gorgeous Sunsets
Watching a sunset over the Pacific Ocean is probably one of the most romantic things you can do in Hawaii. It’s even more romantic when you watch it while sharing a picnic on a beach. When you live in a landlocked state, sunsets are not normally very dramatic. In Hawaii, you not only watch the sun sink into the ocean, but you also get to enjoy all the hues of the sky just after sunset. The colors of passion, such as pinks, purples, and reds fill the sky.

2. The Aloha Spirit
Most people know that the word aloha means hello and goodbye, but did you know it also means love? The aloha spirit in Hawaii is a spirit of love. It’s a spirit of caring, sharing, and giving. The aloha spirit puts the needs of others first. Isn’t that what love is all about? Just think how strong our relationships and marriages can be if we learn to live with an aloha spirit!

3. The Beaches
It is certainly no secret that Hawaii has stunningly beautiful beaches. Imagine yourself sitting and your loved one at a beach in Hawaii. Picture the lava rocks stretching out from the shore to the ocean. Admire the ocean’s shades of azure blue. Hear the waves lapping on to the shore. Feel the tropical breeze. Hear the palm fronds rustling in the breeze. Isn’t it relaxing? Doesn’t it make you forget any troubles you might have back at home? Doesn’t it reset your priorities? Doesn’t it make you refocus your attention on the relationships that matter most? Doesn’t it make you want to give your loved one a big ol’ smooch? Of course it does!

4. The Seclusion
It’s really not hard to find a beach or a hiking trail in Hawaii that you feel like you have all to yourselves. When just the two of you get to enjoy stunning scenery like a hike into Waimea Canyon, for example, or a sunset on a secluded Kapalua beach, it just makes you appreciative of what you’re seeing and sharing together. These are the experiences that create the memories that last you a lifetime.

5. The Stargazing
Hawaii has very little “light pollution” which allows you to see an amazing star-filled sky. Imagine staring at the sky while holding hands with your sweetheart. Ooo la la!

6. The Tiki Torches
Everyone knows that the soft glow and flickering flame of a candle creates a romantic atmosphere. Tiki torches do the same, but on a larger scale. Every resort in Hawaii lights tiki torches at sunset. Usually there will be two torches crossed together. Maybe I’m reading too much into it, but I always think that the two torches together symbolize two lovers. It’s beautiful and just thinking about it right now makes me love sick for Hawaii.

7. The Spas
Hawaii’s spas are top notch. Many spas offer couples massages. At some spas, you can even get a private couples in a hut on the beach. How romantic is that?! A massage in Hawaii helps you to unwind and relax and leaves you with a natural high.

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As today is Valentines Day, I couldn’t resist writing about the romantic aspects of Hawaii. I’d like to think that this post is my Valentines card to Hawaii. I love you, Hawaii!

Happy Valentines Day!

image When I was on Oahu last June, I had the opportunity to meet a delightful and talented photographer, Natalie Norton. She certainly has an expert and creative eye for photography. Just take a look for yourself on her blog at Natalie Norton’s Photo Blog, and I’m sure you’ll agree.

I had never thought of hiring a photographer for a family portrait in Hawaii until I met Natalie, but it makes perfect sense. Hawaii is so beautiful and being there on vacation makes it even more special. So, if you are going there on your dream vacation with your family, or your honeymoon, or your anniversary, consider capturing the moment with professional photos.

Back in June, Natalie kindly agreed to a Q&A about Hawaii photography advice. Today, I’m excited to share with you the first part of that Q&A with a focus finding a photographer for your wedding photos, bridal portraits, and family portraits. I think you’ll really enjoy hearing Natalie’s advice and getting a glimpse of her fun personality. So, let’s get started…

Go Visit Hawaii: Many brides and families who are hiring a photographer for their wedding or family portraits are hiring them from a distance. Since you are a professional wedding/portrait photographer on Oahu what sort of advice to you have for finding and selecting a photographer from a distance?

Natalie Norton: First you’ve got to get clear with yourself. Do you want more formal photos? With everyone perfectly positioned? Or are you leaning toward more of a candid/photo journalistic approach? Do you like hip and modern? Do you like a mixture of all of the above? What I’m saying here is that step one, you’ve got to know what you’re looking for.

imageThen you start the hunt. Clearly you want to check their work. Websites are great, but I’ll tell ya, blogs are better. A website is a great showcase of what the photographer feels is his/her best of their best. Blogs on the other hand are what they’re shooting day in and day out. It’s still what they consider the best of the shoot, but not the best of all the shoots they’ve ever shot. There’s less to choose from for a blog post from a single shoot, see? Blogs are also good because by their posts you can see how often a photographer is shooting-the more often you shoot the more polished your skills. It’s just that simple. You can also get to know them a little bit through the dialog on their blog.

Now, I know this may cause a few gasps, but I think more importantly. . .well, ok, not MORE importantly, but right up there with the quality of the photographer’s work is the way you and your fiance/family will work with them. For your brides and grooms, if there’s time, schedule an engagement session a few days prior to the wedding to warm up to one another. This person you’re hiring is not just going to be capturing your special day for you. . . he/she is going to be SPENDING it with you! You should enjoy their company. I was a guest at a wedding recently where the bride spent the whole day feeling so awkward and uncomfortable in front of her photographer, that all the pictures look just that way. . . awkward and uncomfortable.

Final word: PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, DO NOT hire someone based solely on the amount of time they’ve been shooting. Let me elaborate, Joe Shmoe’s been in the business for 25 years? Great. YOU STILL NEED TO SEE HIS WORK! For all you know he peaked in 1988 and hasn’t kept up with the changing photography styles of the last 20 years. Poor Joe? No, poor YOU if you hire him based simply on his years of experience.

Go Visit Hawaii: What sort of questions should you ask a potential photographer?

Natalie Norton: What you need to be sure of is what exactly you’re paying for.

  • How much is the sitting fee?
  • How much time does that include?
  • Does that price include more than one location?
  • Does that include a high resolution disk of my images or are images purchased a la carte? (Beware the a la carte option. . .it can be a good way to go, unless you are so in love with your photos that you want a copy of every single one and the photographer is charging out the nose for each print. Some photographers will allow you to buy a disk of all the images for a discounted price . . . rather than the price of each and every image. . . usually it’s around $100-200).
  • Do you create coffee table albums of your shoots? If so, what is the cost? (I recommend getting one of these if at all possible. How fun to have a coffee table book of your own family looking all bronzed and beautiful in Hawaii! Way better than some other stupid coffee table book that just ends up being used as a coaster because no one ever opens it. Show off a little! You know you want to!)
  • Also ask about post production. How are they going to get the images to you (especially if you’re leaving the island soon after the shoot)? How long should you expect to wait to see your images?


Go Visit Hawaii:
What should you expect to pay for a family portrait session?

Natalie Norton: Sitting fees generally range anywhere from $200-$500 (USD). Most often that includes one hour of shooting on one location and a designated amount (expect a bare minimum of 25 pictures) of digitally enhanced photos for you to CHOOSE from for PURCHASE. You should expect to pay around $5-1$5 for a 4×6 $10-$20 for a 5×7 etc. Most photographers will also release the entire cd of all the images to you for a cost. The range for this is broad. . . anywhere from $100-$500.

Some photographers have started to include a disk of all the images as a part of their sitting fee. You will have more leverage negotiating this BEFORE the shoot than after. Before the shoot, they’re fighting for your business and they’ll bend over backwards (to a degree that is) to get it. After you’ve seen the images, they know they have you in the palm of their hand because you’re going to fall in love with all the pictures and they know you’ll be willing to pay a bundle to get each and every one.

Go Visit Hawaii: What should you expect to pay for a wedding photographer in Hawaii?

Natalie Norton: This will depend COMPLETELY on the amount of coverage you want. Expect to pay $600 at the VERY LEAST for a decent photographer offering the very least amount of coverage possible (for a small beach ceremony, that may be all you need). For a GREAT photographer covering all of your event (possibly with a second shooter) you should expect to pay anywhere from $1,200-$5,000 or more.

I recommend for larger weddings (and small ones if you can afford it) that you hire a photographer who shoots with a “second shooter.” That way none of your special day will be overlooked. A wedding is a lot to cover for one photographer. I will tell you right now that it will be impossible for one photographer to catch EVERYTHING alone.

Final tip on pricing, if you have a photographer that you love and you’re on a budget, let them know. Tell them that you absolutely cannot afford to pay more than x amount and you may be surprised. They may just cut you a deal. Photographers tend to be pretty cool people if I do say so myself. . . .

Go Visit Hawaii: Where are some of the best spots on Oahu for wedding and family portrait photography?

Natalie Norton: One of my favorite beaches to shoot on is Pounder’s Beach (one of the most famous body surfing beaches on Oahu-but watch it, when it’s going off, it’s got a HEAVY shore break and strong currents with no life guard on duty). It’s on the North East Shore near the Polynesian Cultural Center, which is incidentally a MUST VISIT attraction while on the island, so you can kill two birds with one stone. . . not really. . . please DON’T kill any birds. :-)

image The main thing you’re looking for when scoping out a site for portraits is contrast. I like Pounders because there’s black lava rock, beautiful light colored sand, deep blue water and then the bright green of the Ko’olau Mountain Range in the background. You really can’t go wrong with that much color and contrast.

Another focus when scouting a good backdrop for a portrait is simplicity. . . Pounders is so nice for photography because it’s not a huge tourist spot. When you look back at your photos you’ll want to see you, your loved ones, and the beautiful Pacific, not you and your loved ones with 400 sunburned tourists and their beach umbrellas in the background.

For a lush jungle background, I recommend visiting the Hoomaluhia Botanical Garden in Kaneohe (you may even get some shots of the wild boar roaming the park. . . don’t worry though, they aren’t freaky monsters like on Lost, but I’d still recommend keeping my distance). Remember the tip I gave you about a nice clean background. A common mistake when you want foliage in the background is getting too close to it. Step 15-20ft out from the bushes and trees. Your subject will pop out, rather than getting lost in the busyness of all the leaves, branches and vines.

Go Visit Hawaii: Are some times of the day better than others for portrait photography? If so when are they and how do you determine the best times?

Natalie Norton: Absolutely. Evening is your best bet. I love shooting at sunrise as well, but good luck getting your honeymooners up at the crack of dawn . . .or your jet lagged teenager for that matter. The beauty of the early morning and late afternoon/early evening is that the light softens. It’s coming down at an angle so you won’t get the dark shadows under your eyes and nose typical of shooting mid-day. The sun also has warmer tones at those times as well. Nothing will help your images say “paradise” like a natural filter of warm yellows and soft pinks.

If you are forced to shoot your loved one mid-day: step into the shade. It will filter the sun for you and give you more pleasing shadows.

Go Visit Hawaii: What are things should you avoid wearing for a family portrait?

Natalie Norton: I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this, but matching aloha (Hawaiian print) wear for the whole family. . . not the most flattering portrait attire. Pick simple, harmonious colors. Solids are always nice. You want your bronzed cheeks and relaxed smile to be the focus of the photo, not the alarmingly bright hibiscus flowers all over your clothing.

Something else to think about is this: how often does your entire family go out on the town wearing matching white polo shirts. . . um never. . . EVER (I hope)! Remember that you want your portraits to have a harmony of style and color but not necessarily everyone wearing the exact same thing. It’s nice to see people’s individual personalities come out in a shot as well as strong family harmony.

Natalie lives and shoots on the North Shore of Oahu with her husband Richie and her 3 sons, Raleigh (4), Cardon (2), and Lincoln (18 months). To view a sample of her work or to book a session, visit www.natalienortonphoto.blogspot.com.

Be sure and check out part two of an interview with Natalie where she gives us photography advice for our Hawaii vacation photos.

Photo credit to Natalie Norton, of course. :-)

Destination weddings are becoming more and more popular, because they skip so much of the fuss in planning the big day and gets you closer to the “I do’s” and onto the honeymoon. With the average cost of a traditional wedding being $26,000, destination weddings can save lots of money. A destination wedding helps the bride and groom focus more on the importance of the day and enjoy it rather than worrying about the logistics and guests.

image There are few places on earth that could equal Hawaii for a romantic destination wedding. From beaches to tropical gardens, Hawaii has it all. If you are considering a wedding in Hawaii, you can request free information and find out about special offers from here. Budget Travel has a very nice destination wedding workbook that you can download for free. To learn more about the requirements and process of getting a marriage license in Hawaii, check out the Hawaii Department of Health’s web site.

Just think, if you get married in Hawaii, you’ll have an excuse to return there every year to celebrate your anniversary. Not a bad idea at all. :)

Don’t miss this fantastic Q&A with advice on hiring a photographer for your Hawaii wedding.

If you are considering or planning a wedding, honeymoon, or romantic vacation to Kauai, you will find this review to be useful. The review includes these five resorts on Kauai:

  • Grand Hyatt Kauai
  • Hanalei Colony Resort
  • Whalers Cove Resort
  • Sheraton Kauai
  • Hanalei Bay Resort

This review covers highlights of the best aspects as well as issues and limitations of each resort.

Though these brief reviews are quite good, I’m surprised that the Princeville Hotel wasn’t included among the mix. The Princeville Hotel is a 5 star resort that has the most stunning backdrop (e.g. the Bali Hai) of any resort in all of Hawaii, in my opinion.

Sheila

A New Trend for Destination Weddings

Wouldn’t it be great to have your wedding at gorgeous private home on a beach in Kauai? This dream can become a reality. This article issued by www.HomeAway.com describes a new trend for desination weddings held at luxury private homes. The bride and groom rent these high end homes that make a lovely wedding location plus can house your family and closest friends. The eight bedroom Hawaiian Plantation house described in the article is on three acres at Secret Beach in Kauai. It has a wrap around 2,000 square foot lanai, 50-foot swimming pool, a jacuzzi, and a private tennis court. Sounds wonderful to me! Maybe my husband and I need to plan to renew our vows for our upcoming 8th anniversary. ;-)